Feeling insightful about life

Dream, believe, strive, achieve.

Whenever shit gets tough, life  messes up your plans...just keep thinking...i've overcome so much and look at what I've done.

Be greatful for all your blessings ...
And better will come.

Having an off day is fine. But dont let anything or anyone drag you under.
Always believe in yourself and what you CAN and WILL do.

Positivity
Gratitude

Clean out your junk...
In your home
In your friendships and relationships
In your emotions and thoughts

Focus on the good things
Jump over hurdles

Take time to chill and just breathe and organize, inside and out.

Deal with tasks one at a time.
And when you get swamped, take a min to re-focus. And then tackle one issue at a time.

Things usually work out.
You always get through, you are still alive a priveledge not afforded to everyone.

And when all seams bleak...
Do you have a roof over your head?
Food to eat?
A warm place to be?
Any kind of love or friendship in your life?
Then you are blessed.

Cut out toxic people and don't pay heed to nastiness outside of your little bubble.

Haters gonna hate
Bitches gunna bitch

But likers gunna like.

Its hard to stick to all the positive thoughts and try not to winge or complaine when things go wrong.
Its hard to ignore nasty people all the time.
But thats when it's time to sit back and take stock...
What matters?
What doesn't?

We make our own paths.
Sometimes life likes to give us road blocks, alternative routes, pot holes, hills, dips, bends, clifside paths and seamingly impossible mountains...
Its up to us how we tackle them.

Life is hard sometimes and what is devistating to one person could be a minor issue to another and vive versa in different situations.

Be understanding of others situations and dispositions, we all deal with things differently.
Be patient and careing, generous, and loving and forgiving. BUT be strong, learn to say NO, learn to stand up to injustice and assholes and develope the ability to walk away when you have to.

When someone faulters, help them along but do not allow yourself to be taken advantage of. I will pick you up and help you mend but i cannot and will not carry you the rest of the way.

Learn to accept constructive criticisim. Constructive only.
Dissmiss the opinions of others that are based in malace.

Be true to yourself.

Know that we all have off days, off periods, when we will all get snappy, cranky, tiered, emotional, make bad decisions, say things or do things you wish you could take back, or say or do things that are taken the wrong way from how you intended them to be.

Try to be a good person.
Try not to do to anyone something you would not stand to have done to yourself.
And learn to forgive yourself and others for their mistakes.

Better yourself for yourself, physically, emotionally, spiritually. In relationships, in career, education, life.

Set goals and tackle things from the bottom up.

Do what you can with what you have and as your resources grow, do more and build on it.

Forget judgement, societal preconceptuons and expectations, learn to live for yourself...what makes YOU happy? And as long as it brings no harm to others...DO IT!

Learn to forget stares, jibes, gossip, name calling, labels, about your; life, choices, character, appearance, attire, physicality.
Leave naesayers and negative and bitter people to their own self created hells. And do your damndest to make yourself have a paradise of mind.

Introspective assessment and stock taking ahould be done regularly. Get to know yourself better and change what you don't like...one step at a time in all aspects of life.

Take time to re charge. Have a day off to sleep. Go for walks in nature. Learn to love your own company and yourself. If you are full of self doubt, hate and flaw picking how can you expect anyine else to love you, believe in you or think you worthy of their time, love, help...etc.

Stand fast in your convictions, accept the views and beliefs and insight if ithers to enrich yourself with wisdom and learning and do not feel angry at opposing views. It only shows your lack of assurance in your own stance.

Learn that people change, who you knew a few weeks ago could be an entirely different person now. People grow apart, it doesnt make them bad and does not give you liscence to bad mouth someone.

Learn that if someone can be mean about another to you then you should question what is said in your abscence. Talking about people is something we all do in a general way, talking ill about others is something we should all strive to avoid from our own mouths and from the mouths of others.

Find the things that are wrong INSIDE you 1st and then work on your external issues...i.e finances, moving location...etc.

Learning to be positive is hard when it feels like every time you get to a point of "getting there" life kicks you in the preverbial balls again n again.
Is hard when you get distracted by negative issues, bills, illness, loss etc.

Look at what you have acheieved in life and believe in yourself.

Do what makes you happy and build steps to a better mind set and a better life for yourself.

Cleche...
Life is what you make it
One door closes for another to open
What is for you wont go by you
Believe in yourself
Every cloud has a silver lining
Know thy self
You're only human

But only himan is a magical wonderous thing to be if only we take the time to look at it right. We are all so much more and so vastly under rated as a species, we are all...we are amazing. We can achive so much.
We are ao much more than we think we are and so much more powerful than we have been lead to believe.

We are not the system
We are not pay cheques
We are not grades
We are not names and numbers
We are not here to just struggle by and wish.
We are not worker ants and missed dreams and missed opertunieties because we are ; too old, too big, too small, too busy, too poor, not brave enough, ....
We are eternal magical energy, amazing creatures if we can just accept that and build our own little empires of happiness and self awaireness and love, peace, positivity, caring, balance and then produce personal prospertiy.